Monday, October 28, 2013

There Are Options When Choosing Jewish Cemeteries In New Jersey

By Rachael Gutierrez


Losing someone you love is always difficult. Knowing what to do can be quite a challenge. Determining which Jewish cemeteries in New Jersey to turn to, can be quite a challenge. Fortunately, there are several options. Here is information about the many decisions that must be made in order to best choose what will fit your needs.

Facing the unexpected costs of a funeral can be overwhelming. Request from the funeral home, a categorized listing of what they include in their price. Some funeral homes may include the chapel or synagogue but not the memorial or graveside service. Having a list shows you not only what is included, but also what may be needed that is not included.

The customs of your loved one should also be taken into consideration. Forethought should be taken regarding their beliefs. If they had more traditional beliefs you may prefer a more traditional service. If they were more non-traditional you may want to consider other options. Also, consider whether they were reformed, conservative or orthodox. Often, the funeral home will provide a Rabbi if you do not have one available.

If someone passed after they moved away or while traveling, most cemeteries will work with you to arrange to have the body brought back to New Jersey. This can be quite helpful. They can make all of the arrangements for you, so that you do not have to deal with more than one funeral home.

Careful consideration should be taken when looking at options for burial, cremation or entombment. Markers, gravestones and monuments are a lovely way of showing remembrance and should be taken into reflective contemplation. Make sure that you keep in mind the size, color, shape, design and the quality of the monuments.

If your loved one was someone who often donated to charitable organizations, you may want to ask people to make donations to his favorite charities. You can always speak with the funeral director for guidance regarding specific charities. You may also request that they provide you with a list of charities, if you are unsure.

In New Jersey, if a final disposition takes place within 48 hours it is not required to have the body embalmed. It is required by law if the final disposition has not taken place within that amount of time. It is imperative to make prompt arrangements if you wish for the final disposition to occur within the first 48 hours.

Speak with family and friends regarding which facilities they have used in the past. Ask relevant questions. Find out if they were happy with the services that were provided. If they were unhappy, ask why.

Many of these businesses offer preplanning services. This seems to be an excellent option for many people. This option provides someone the ability to choose their services, based on their beliefs. It also allows for them to use the Rabbi they want. This option makes a difficult time much less stressful for the surviving family members and friends.

When you are looking for Jewish cemeteries in New Jersey, make your decisions based on information not emotion. Do not make any decisions until you have done your research. Make sure you ask questions. Check with other nearby facilities. Keep the wishes of your loved one in mind.




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