Monday, August 26, 2013

Communication Skills: Avoiding The Awkward Silence

By J. Ryu


You finally manage to approach a cute girl. Utilizing your awesome communication skills, you strike up a conversation without getting slapped or laughed away. The conversation with this cutie is going great. She's smiling, laughing, clearly becoming more interested and more attracted as you continue.

Then you blank out... Run out of things to say. Try as you might, you cannot think of something funny, interesting, charming, or dear God, anything to continue the conversation. Her interest in you is falling faster than your ego and ambitions for the night. She looks at you expectantly, then disinterestedly, then disappointedly, then finally dismissively. Game over.

So whatever can you do to pull the conversational nose-dive back into the high flying conversation it was? You go into your tool kit. Your interaction abilities toolbox. You are about to learn one of the absolute best conversation-saving resource available. This is a surefire method to save any conversation with a woman, PLUS it's so perfectly constructed, that it easily allows for sexual innuendo to creep into her mind "in the right place" while still masquerading as pure, non-desperate and fun banter.

It's a little game called "SMK" and it will be your brand-new best friend. When you deploy the SMK game, any faltering conversation will instantly be reversed. You will jump beyond the typical dork that approaches her with the usual stupid pickup lines and dull conversations.

When you start to run out of things to say, when her attraction is beginning to dipping down ... You turn to her, and you say: "Hey, let's play a game real quick." Her eyes will glimmer with interest. This is definitely a departure from the typical night-time drivel she's used to dealing with. She will definitely invite you to proceed.

Continue to the game. Start to glance around the room, assessing the other guys you see and start to point them out one by one, and ask her "ok, so would you sleep with, marry, or kill him?" She'll laugh at first. Then she'll look over at your target and size him up. Choose different types of guys representing the spectrum of personality types and stereotypes. A jock. A gangster. A nerd. A handsome debonair type. A musician. A business guy.

This will do a few things:

1) You will get an idea into what she values in a guy, and how she works. She will provide very direct tips to how she wishes to be seduced. If she says "sleep with" to the artist, "marry" to the nerdy man, and "kill" to the man in a business suit ... then you can suspect that she's got a wild side, she does not like guys with a great deal of structure, and she's a secret nerd. Think of that ... she'll pretty much be providing you a HUGE tip into how you can seduce her.

2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so crucial to the first stage of the interaction. Keep conversation light, non-needy (teasing her playfully) and fun! Make fun and silly projections about who you guess she'd fuck, marry and kill. It will be remarkably easy as she's alternating between giggling at her own qwerky tastes, cringing at the dopey guys, and switching to her "ooh la la" voice with the guys that turn her on.

3) Which brings me to my next point ... SHE WILL GET AROUSED. Bear in mind, you are asking her to bring the thought "who do I wish to sleep with?" into her mind, and all in the context of an experience that was created by and shared with you ... and just you.

4) Finally ... she will see that you are 100 % confident in your sexuality and your ability to bring in girls. You can confidently talk about the theoretical thought of her sleeping with other guys, which doesn't threaten you. 99.99% of men would be intimidated to even suggest that she even look at another man while he's speaking to her! Your self-confidence here will be extremely hot to women.

After playing this game for even a few minutes, she will be extremely turned on by your creativity, your playfulness, and your confidence... This sets you up PERFECTLY to transition into the next stage of interaction, which builds upon the sexual energy in this game, especially if you've been properly mixing in the right "sexual triggers" that all women have.




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