Sunday, August 25, 2013

How To Approach A Woman On The Street

By J. Ryu


You're walking down the street, minding your own business, then there it is, an extremely cute girl walking along staring at her iphone. You're convinced she is your dream girl and possible future wife and if you let her walk on and out of your life, you'll be missing out on the opportunity of a lifetime. What do you do? What can you do?

Arguably, approaching a girl cold, off the street is among the hardest pickups to do. A girl on the street feels vulnerable and open so if a strange guy comes up, her guard will be up. Have you ever had a complete stranger come up to you on the street? Feels strange doesn't it? Then should you quit and let her walk out of your life? Hell no !

1. Eye contact

As soon as you see "the one," take action! A street approach has to feel spontaneous to the woman, not like a rehearsed canned pick up or they will feel uncomfortable. Make eye contact as soon as possible and keep your eyes locked, too, so she knows that it wasn't just chance that your eyes met.

When eye contact is made, be sure she understands you are attempting to get her attention. Wave, nod, something clearly attention getting. You are trying to establish contact before your approach which helps the woman prepare mentally for a complete stranger accosting them.

2. Body Language

Upon approach, wear an innocent smile! A smile is welcoming, contagious, conveys openness and innocence and will help lower her guard. Also, use open body language! Make sure your body language is not confrontational and direct but responding to her reactions toward you.

Integrate hand gestures into your conversation. This will not just help her to follow your conversation if you're someplace hectic, but it will also keep her eyes on you. On the street, it will be simple for her to get distracted, especially if she wasn't really certain it was worth stopping in the first place.

Use your hands to keep her eyes concentrated on you. Utilizing your hands will also show confidence. Don't keep them in your pockets with your shoulders slouched. Make sure it is clear you understand what you want and you think wants it too.

3. The Game

On a street pick up you want to introduce yourself and exactly what you're up to as soon as you're in so you're not a stranger to her. You also want to keep your lines and talk light, innocent, and casual. The strategy in a street pickup is to drop her raised guard. This is done by you conveying a relaxed, casual, innocent vibe. No canned pickup lines in street approaches under any circumstances!

A busy woman on the road has someplace to go so you have to be fast and bold. Don't her, your eye contact and waving ought to be bold enough to convince her to stop. From there, you know exactly what to do. Flirt, communicate, make a connection. Make her co curious about you that she wants to know even more.

Don't get too flirty too quick - remember that you just met on the street and you don't even know if she's single - but if her body language is saying "yes," go ahead and ask for a chance to see her again. Stopping someone on the street is a little creepy if you don't handle yourself correctly. The trick is getting her attention and then letting her know how innocent and honest your intentions are.




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