The early days in a relationship with a girl that you really like can be nerve wracking. Everything is perfect at this point but you worry that you're going to blow it. You worry that you're not moving fast enough or that you're moving too fast. You are really enjoying spending time with her but you know that it could all be over if you don't play your cards right. Nothing is set in stone and while you might feel that she's attracted to you and also enjoying spending time together, you want to do everything in your power to ensure that she stays attracted to you. This relationship is important to you.
Before you blow a fuse, relax. Everything is fine. Both of you are getting to know each other and you're enjoying spending time together. Even though you might be tempted to confront the question of where everything is heading by bringing the subject up, avoid this temptation at all cost. At this point, that question is on both of your minds but the first one to utter the words loses. A woman, in particular, will find you to be weak or needy if you start asking such questions. Simply be happy with how things are going and before too long you'll have your answer without even having to ask the question. It's somewhat like a staring match and the first one to blink loses.
Secondly, try to be yourself as much as possible. Don't lie or tell her things to try to impress her. Keep the focus on her. This is the getting to know you phase so get to know her. What do you want to know about her? Spend some time thinking about this instead of worrying about when you're supposed to kiss her of if she wants you to kiss her. Everybody loves to talk about themselves so the more interest you show in her the more she is going to like you. And when that moment comes to kiss her, you're going to know.
If at any time you feel that you're not doing well or that you are tempted to do something stupid like wanting to talk about feelings or where you stand in the relationship, take a time out. Excuse yourself and take a few minutes to get your bearings and talk yourself through what's going on. Find some place where you can be alone for five minutes such as the bathroom or in your car and talk yourself through this. Anxiety and nervousness are normal when you're with a girl that you really like but don't let your insecurity destroy what you have built so far. You have successfully attracted her and created a connection with her. Don't allow your emotions to make you do something that you're going to regret. Be strong and know that she is attracted to you and that everything will progress much more quickly if you have confidence in yourself. Women find confidence very attractive.
When you find a girl that you really like, getting into a relationship with her is a lot easier than you think. Try not to complicate this and enjoy the dance. This is the truly fun part of the relationship and it's not the destination that you should be focusing on. It's the journey that will make having her in your life so enjoyable for both of you.
Before you blow a fuse, relax. Everything is fine. Both of you are getting to know each other and you're enjoying spending time together. Even though you might be tempted to confront the question of where everything is heading by bringing the subject up, avoid this temptation at all cost. At this point, that question is on both of your minds but the first one to utter the words loses. A woman, in particular, will find you to be weak or needy if you start asking such questions. Simply be happy with how things are going and before too long you'll have your answer without even having to ask the question. It's somewhat like a staring match and the first one to blink loses.
Secondly, try to be yourself as much as possible. Don't lie or tell her things to try to impress her. Keep the focus on her. This is the getting to know you phase so get to know her. What do you want to know about her? Spend some time thinking about this instead of worrying about when you're supposed to kiss her of if she wants you to kiss her. Everybody loves to talk about themselves so the more interest you show in her the more she is going to like you. And when that moment comes to kiss her, you're going to know.
If at any time you feel that you're not doing well or that you are tempted to do something stupid like wanting to talk about feelings or where you stand in the relationship, take a time out. Excuse yourself and take a few minutes to get your bearings and talk yourself through what's going on. Find some place where you can be alone for five minutes such as the bathroom or in your car and talk yourself through this. Anxiety and nervousness are normal when you're with a girl that you really like but don't let your insecurity destroy what you have built so far. You have successfully attracted her and created a connection with her. Don't allow your emotions to make you do something that you're going to regret. Be strong and know that she is attracted to you and that everything will progress much more quickly if you have confidence in yourself. Women find confidence very attractive.
When you find a girl that you really like, getting into a relationship with her is a lot easier than you think. Try not to complicate this and enjoy the dance. This is the truly fun part of the relationship and it's not the destination that you should be focusing on. It's the journey that will make having her in your life so enjoyable for both of you.
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