Has another guy stolen your girlfriend? Has your girlfriend left you for someone else and you're feeling pretty poor about your chances of winning her back. Maybe he has more money than you, dresses better than you, acts cooler than you or is more handsome than you. None of this matters though and you need to know that in your heart.
Most guys will tell you that women are attracted to guys that are rich, handsome and players. While many girls might chase after guys like this, a real woman knows that a guy like this isn't relationship material. Women soon figure out that they're being played and drop such guys like a hot potato. Real woman are attracted to a particular guy that can make her feel a certain way. Women want a guy that is genuine, unique and who is able to make her feel a range of emotions. Most woman want to feel secure in a relationship. They want to feel romance as well as know that they can count on their man to be there for them. They're looking for their rock that they can depend on when times get tough. They want to feel a special connection and understand their man without words. You can make her feel this way, right?
Since you're broken up right now, chances are that you haven't been yourself for some time. During the time leading up to the breakup and after your breakup you have probably been acting a little strange. Maybe you were so desperate to save your relationship that you acted a little crazy. You wanted to talk about things or make things right. You were willing to sacrifice whatever was necessary to win her back and as a result you came off weak, needy and desperate.
All the while, the other man had your girlfriend right where he wanted her. He didn't have to try and he probably didn't even care about her the way that you did. All he had to do was be there for her and listen to her and the bond was made. He would agree with her about everything and tell her that he would behave differently. He was her port in a storm and she felt free to connect with him. When she was with him it was as if he was her refuge from her relationship that she felt smothered in.
Now it's your turn to create or recreate that connection with the woman you love. You did it before and probably quite easily. She fell in love with you and she probably told you at one point that she felt a strong connection with you. This is the only way to get her back. You need her to see for herself that you are the one that truly cares about her. She needs to make this decision on her own. There will come a time when she will reach out to you and test to see if that connection is still there. She will remember how things were and she will wonder if you still care enough to make her feel those wonderful feelings that she had when things were good between the two of you. Will you be ready?
Now is the time for you to do the prep work that is necessary for you to win her back. It's time for you to rebuild your life and get your self-confidence back. That other guy doesn't exist and he's not important to your plans. Your girlfriend loved you above all others at one point. It's your goal to rebuild that connection and the only thing standing in your way is your doubt. Banish all doubt and be that man that she fell in love with. Understand her and let her come to you. Forget about your needs and fulfill her needs for a man that is strong and caring. Soon you will have that opportunity to connect with her again so you want to be fully prepared to support her, love her and laugh with her again.
Most guys will tell you that women are attracted to guys that are rich, handsome and players. While many girls might chase after guys like this, a real woman knows that a guy like this isn't relationship material. Women soon figure out that they're being played and drop such guys like a hot potato. Real woman are attracted to a particular guy that can make her feel a certain way. Women want a guy that is genuine, unique and who is able to make her feel a range of emotions. Most woman want to feel secure in a relationship. They want to feel romance as well as know that they can count on their man to be there for them. They're looking for their rock that they can depend on when times get tough. They want to feel a special connection and understand their man without words. You can make her feel this way, right?
Since you're broken up right now, chances are that you haven't been yourself for some time. During the time leading up to the breakup and after your breakup you have probably been acting a little strange. Maybe you were so desperate to save your relationship that you acted a little crazy. You wanted to talk about things or make things right. You were willing to sacrifice whatever was necessary to win her back and as a result you came off weak, needy and desperate.
All the while, the other man had your girlfriend right where he wanted her. He didn't have to try and he probably didn't even care about her the way that you did. All he had to do was be there for her and listen to her and the bond was made. He would agree with her about everything and tell her that he would behave differently. He was her port in a storm and she felt free to connect with him. When she was with him it was as if he was her refuge from her relationship that she felt smothered in.
Now it's your turn to create or recreate that connection with the woman you love. You did it before and probably quite easily. She fell in love with you and she probably told you at one point that she felt a strong connection with you. This is the only way to get her back. You need her to see for herself that you are the one that truly cares about her. She needs to make this decision on her own. There will come a time when she will reach out to you and test to see if that connection is still there. She will remember how things were and she will wonder if you still care enough to make her feel those wonderful feelings that she had when things were good between the two of you. Will you be ready?
Now is the time for you to do the prep work that is necessary for you to win her back. It's time for you to rebuild your life and get your self-confidence back. That other guy doesn't exist and he's not important to your plans. Your girlfriend loved you above all others at one point. It's your goal to rebuild that connection and the only thing standing in your way is your doubt. Banish all doubt and be that man that she fell in love with. Understand her and let her come to you. Forget about your needs and fulfill her needs for a man that is strong and caring. Soon you will have that opportunity to connect with her again so you want to be fully prepared to support her, love her and laugh with her again.
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Learn more about female psychology from Matt Huston. Discover why your girlfriend might need you to take the lead in your relationship.
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